Seeking the Aid of Great Men

அறம் உணர்ந்தவராய்த் தன்னை விட மூத்தவராய் உள்ள அறிவுடையவரின் நட்பை, கொள்ளும் வகை அறிந்து ஆராய்ந்து கொள்ள வேண்டும்.

அறமுணர்ந்த மூதறிஞர்களின் நட்பைப் பெறும் வகை அறிந்து, அதனைத் தேர்ந்தெடுத்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்

The people we turn to can shape our choices. Look for good character and sound judgment, not just greater age. Notice how they treat others and handle difficult choices. Take care when choosing whose friendship and advice to seek.

Personal

Before borrowing money, seek advice from an experienced friend who acts honestly.

Workplace

Build a friendship with an experienced coworker who treats people fairly.

Family

Ask a thoughtful older relative for guidance during a family disagreement.

Society

Seek help from experienced neighbors known for making fair choices.

Decision-making

Consider a person's character and experience before seeking their advice.

Integrity

Choose advisers who act honestly, even when honesty costs them.

Communication

Ask thoughtful questions and listen carefully to experienced people you trust.

Leadership

Build lasting ties with people whose good judgment can guide you.

Governance

Choose public advisers for their good character, experience, and sound judgment.

Choose helpers with good character and greater experience. Take time to know them and earn their friendship.

“Whose good character and experience could guide you, and how might you build that friendship?”