Seeking the Aid of Great Men
Ariyavatru Lellaam Aridhe Periyaaraip / Penith Thamaraak Kolal
Classical English couplet — “To cherish men of mighty soul, and make them all their own,Of kingly treasures rare, as rarest gift is known”
What it says in plain words
“Among life's hardest and most valuable gains is a close bond with wise people. Such bonds grow when we value these people and treat them with care.”
The classical Tamil reading
பெரியாரைப் போற்றி தமக்குச் சுற்றத்தாராக்கிக் கொள்ளுதல், பெறத்தக்க அரிய பேறுகள் எல்லாவற்றிலும் அருமையானதாகும்.
An expanded Tamil interpretation
பெரியவர்களைப் போற்றிப் பாராட்டி அவர்களுடன் உறவாடுதல் எல்லாப் பேறுகளையும் விடப் பெரும் பேறாகும்
The ethical and philosophical heart
Wise people can help us see everyday problems more clearly. But knowing them is not the same as being close. The rare gift is a close bond with wise people. This means valuing them as people, not just asking for advice.
In personal life, work and society
- Personal
- You keep in touch with an older friend whose good judgment you value.
- Workplace
- You thank a helpful coworker and make time to learn from them.
- Family
- You regularly spend time with a relative whose thoughtful advice helps you.
- Society
- Neighbors build a lasting friendship with someone known for helping others wisely.
How to apply this today
- Decision-making
- Seek advice from wise people you know and respect.
- Integrity
- Value wise friends even when you need nothing from them.
- Communication
- Listen carefully and show that you value their thoughts.
- Leadership
- Build close ties with people whose good judgment helps your team.
- Governance
- Keep trusted, thoughtful advisers close and treat their guidance with respect.
For leaders and teams
Treat bonds with wise people as something precious, not just useful. Make time for those whose judgment helps you lead well.
Something to sit with
“Who brings wisdom into your life, and how could you strengthen that bond today?”