The Possession of Decorum
Nandrikku Viththaakum Nallozhukkam Theeyozhukkam / Endrum Itumpai Tharum
Classical English couplet — “'Decorum true' observed a seed of good will be;'Decorum's breach' will sorrow yield eternally”
What it says in plain words
“Good behavior plants the seeds of a good life. Bad behavior brings trouble and pain that can last.”
The classical Tamil reading
நல்லொழுக்கம் இன்பமான நல்வாழ்க்கைக்குக் காரணமாக இருக்கும்; தீயொழுக்கம் எப்போதும் துன்பத்தைக் கொடுக்கும்.
An expanded Tamil interpretation
நல்லொழுக்கம், வாழ்க்கையில் நன்மைக்கு வித்தாக அமையும் தீயொழுக்கம், தீராத துன்பம் தரும்
The ethical and philosophical heart
The couplet compares good behavior to planting a seed. Our daily choices help shape the life we build. At home or work, good actions help good things grow. Harmful actions can cause pain that lasts beyond the moment.
In personal life, work and society
- Personal
- You return a lost wallet instead of keeping the money.
- Workplace
- You admit a mistake rather than let someone else take the blame.
- Family
- You speak kindly during a disagreement instead of saying hurtful things.
- Society
- You put rubbish in a bin rather than leave trouble for others.
How to apply this today
- Decision-making
- Choose what helps people rather than what may cause lasting harm.
- Integrity
- Do what is right even when nobody is watching.
- Communication
- Speak honestly and kindly so your words do not cause needless pain.
- Leadership
- Show the good behavior you want others to follow.
- Governance
- Make fair rules and follow them when serving the community.
For leaders and teams
As a leader, plant good through daily actions. Your example can help others avoid choices that bring pain.
Something to sit with
“What small action could you take today to help good things grow in your life?”