Not Coveting
Natuvindri Nanporul Veqkin Kutipondrik / Kutramum Aange Tharum
Classical English couplet — “With soul unjust to covet others' well-earned store,Brings ruin to the home, to evil opes the door”
What it says in plain words
“Wanting to take someone else's belongings unfairly can ruin your family. It also brings wrongdoing and blame into your life.”
The classical Tamil reading
நடுவுநிலைமை இல்லாமல் பிறர்க்குரிய நல்ல பொருளை ஒருவன் கவர விரும்பினால் அவனுடைய குடியும் கெட்டுக் குற்றமும் அப்போழுதே வந்து சேரும்.
An expanded Tamil interpretation
மனச்சான்றை ஒதுக்கிவிட்டுப் பிறர்க்குரிய அரும் பொருளைக் கவர்ந்துகொள்ள விரும்புகிறவரின் குடியும் கெட்டொழிந்து, பழியும் வந்து சேரும்
The ethical and philosophical heart
The warning is about wanting others' belongings while ignoring what is fair. Taking unfairly harms more than you. Your choices can hurt your family and damage its good name. Respecting what belongs to others helps protect your home from these harms.
In personal life, work and society
- Personal
- You return a lost wallet instead of keeping its money.
- Workplace
- You leave shared equipment at work rather than taking it home as your own.
- Family
- You divide inherited belongings fairly instead of secretly keeping the most valuable items.
- Society
- Neighbors respect property boundaries rather than quietly taking part of someone else's land.
How to apply this today
- Decision-making
- Ask whether getting what you want would mean taking something that belongs to someone else.
- Integrity
- Respect other people's belongings, even when nobody is watching.
- Communication
- Speak honestly about who owns something when a disagreement arises.
- Leadership
- Never use your position to take what belongs to others.
- Governance
- Keep public money for public needs, not personal purchases.
For leaders and teams
Show others that fairness matters more than gain. Taking what belongs to others can also harm those who depend on you.
Something to sit with
“Where could you be more careful about respecting what belongs to others today?”